Young, dumb and failing at love.

So i thought tonight id do a blog directed for the females out there. Its about this stupid thing called love. Many seek it, find it then loose it. Others are lucky enough to find it and hold on to it, either because they are 100 percent compatible with their other half or the male she is with is just as crazy as her. 

Heres some of the many cliched lines about love that are meant to help you but really just give you cheesy status' for facebook or back in the day made great bebo skins! Dont go looking for love, let it find you. The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love someone else. There is only one happiness in life, to love and be loved. The list of cheesiness goes on. Iv decided these quotes do nothing but make you feel sorry for your desperate self and give you a reason to watch the notebook on repeat. So first piece of advice, stop googling "love quotes" (like i just did so i had some to put in this blog) and just maybe you will stop thinking about how your twenty, single, poor and slightly fat from the two pieces of cake you just ate after dinner.

Second piece of advice for the night. Turn your lovey dovey feelings into anger. But instead of getting your phone out and texting your ex about how he was so horrible to you and broke your heart, use your anger to make a banging play list on your ipod or phone, strap it on to your arm and either go hard out at the gym or a swift walk around the block. Youll find you feel amazing after wards rather than feeling like shit staring at a tub of empty icecream.

Third piece of advice. Dont sleep with your ex to try get "pay back" and let him see what hes missing. Its just a free ticket for him and some serious mind fucking for you. It wont work.

And the best thing iv realised this year and also my final piece of advice for this blog. We are young. Who cares about love right now? If youve found it, thats awesome. If not, dont sweat it, youve got ya whole life to settle down. Until then settle into cuddling ya besty after a drunken night out, atleast then youll wake up the next morning with no suprised look on your face and the thoughts "oh shit, what the hell did i just do", running round in ya head.